What's FriendZone?? and how to Get Out of it??

Me nauuso na namang bago..Friend Zone ang tawag nila..
I was curious,so i made a few research..



based on Urban Dictionary:
It is what you attain after you fail to impress a woman you're attracted to. Usually initiated by the woman saying, "You're such a Good Friend". Usually associated with long days of suffering and watching your love interest hop from one bad relationship to another.

tsk,a situation a guy wouldn't want to experience. But believe it or not,once you're there, you dont know what to do,how to get out and how to react.


here's another one from Wikipedia,
In popular culture, the "friend zone" refers to a platonic relationship wherein one person wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationship, while the other does not. It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation by the lovelorn person. One sign of being friend zoned is being told that they are "considering" the relationship, or if a friend needs to help by asking for them. Once the friend zone is established, it is difficult to move beyond that point in a relationship for fear of losing the friendship entirely.

5 STEPS

some of the things are not really meant to be..
,and people would say.."everything happens for a reason"
they say love is a blessing,
but lets admit the fact that not all of us were blessed enough with our lovelife..
somethings don’t work out right..
di porke masaya kayo ngayun,
masaya na kayo forever..
kahit anong iwas mo,darating at darating talaga ang problema..
at kung mahina kayo pareho,
walang mangyayari sa pinanghahawakan nyo..
and for all those failed relationships,
na ginawa na halos lahat pero di parin naisalba..
kaylangan na ang tinatawag nilang "moving on"
pero ano ba talaga ang moving on??
eto ba yung point na wala ka na talagang choice , kundi e suko nalng ang relasyong pilit mong pinaglalaban
dahil alam mong wala na talagang patutunguhan..
at kailangan mong tanggapin na hindi na talaga kayo pwede..???
ngunit panu ba to kakayanin ng pusong pinipilit palang buoin ulit ,matapos ang ilang beses na pag ka durog??
panu ba talaga ang mag move'on??

i want a guy bestfriend

i want a guy bestfriend

someone who will keep my hopes up.

someone who can hold my hand when i feel down

someone who can hug me tight when im feeling cold

someone who will never leave my side

someone who will beat up all the boys that hurt me

someone who will wipe my tears when i cry

someone who will acknowledge even the small things that ive done

someone who wants to spend his time with me almost everyday

someone who will run to get me medicine when im not feeling well

someone who will make me one of his priorities

someone who wont be shy telling the world that im his BESTFRIEND

someone who knows me inside out,even my darkest side

someone who will accept my childish behavior and play along with it

someone who will climb on the roof with me and wait for the sunset

someone who know exactly how to make me laugh out loud

someone who will embrace my sensitivity and immaturity

someone that i can be myself with

someone who i will eventually fall inlove with

and someone who will eventually love me back as well

:)

---for Bee

I thought it was ME

 i was standing right across the street earlier, then someone stand right behind me. He was saying something that really weakened my knees. "your life is given to you,  for you to enjoy it; not to make you feel that way". i looked behind and saw a man who is a little bit taller than me, his hands on both pockets and he was looking at me straight in the eye. i didn't say a word, i was mesmerized. And he added "when you feel that its too much, take time to rest. if you think he doesn't deserve that feeling you have for him anymore,then don't just stop there and suffer the misfortune. Instead, continue your journey and look for someone who is more worth-it than he is."

 I was hit by those line. It goes through my veins and reached up to my inner soul. i was just staring at him holding my tears back. when he added " I'm sorry Casie,can you give me a minute" then he removed his headset on his ears and said "are you okay?you look like your about to cry."

nExT tO mE

looking at your replica
quiero cruzar la distancia.
But shouldn't make it,
couldn't bear it.
Words absurd
like a sharpless sword.
Without you with me
life's full of worry
situations gory
eyes teary.
Midst imperfection
you give satisfaction.
Beyond hindrances
you keep giving chances.
I cant last a day,
in this life's way
without you here with me
right next to me..

i hate being left behind!!!

"i hate being left behind!!!"

its something that most of us agrees. Its making you feel unwanted. It makes you feel unlove, it felt like you were not valued by someone you valued so much. Its a weakness of some. But for me who always experience that feeling, it is my gateway to give myself some credit. To give attention to myself. Although it felt really painful, it helps me realize a lot of things, and also regret some. It felt empty being alone.

 How will you make yourself believe that its okay being alone, when you know there are billions of people around the world and still there's no who's meant to be beside you. Ironic??YES!!..that's my life..im living it for more than 2 decades now. Ive met a lot, but they just come and go. No one stays, no one cares.
 I guess i shouldn't let my self get so hooked up in one specific person, maybe i should just treat them like they were just passing by and maybe i wont feel like im being left behind.

LOVE is BLIND

they say love is blind. But how can it be possible? we all see imperfections,that's a fact! But the thing is we fell inlove, and that makes us love the person no matter what they are. And that includes loving the worst in them. Love makes everything perfect, it makes you feel that everything is right, although some people find it wrong.
We all see it,but we ignore it because we're happy,we feel complete and we feel secure. A simple sweet gesture makes you forget all the wrong things they posses. But lets make everything fair, we  ourselves are not perfect, we tend to act or do things absentmindedly. We easily judge people without looking within ourselves. Nothing is constant..change is the only constant thing in this world.

so basically LOVE is not BLIND..is SEES but it NEVER MINDS...

Send my LOVE to HEAVEN

i watched him from a far
just like a lifeless shooting star
he was so happy i can see
but it hurts to think, the reason was not me.
i made it to him
attention i win.
he smiled me back now,
still im waiting for his vow.
as we get along
i realize something was wrong.
then this time came that i need to go
to seek for my destiny is what i do so.
we keep things normally
we reached for each other casually.
everything is okay with us,

but im missing the things we did in the past.
but deep within me, i know
i want him more than just a bro.
months had passed,years gone by

Thought it was you

my life was normal
im nobody,just someone typical
but you came and make my world.
you make me smile like nobody could.
I believe it was God's plan.
we were made to be one
days passed,months and year,
a little thing,inside me I fear..
It might grow fast everyday
it just started when you held my hand one day.
until now the feeling just wont go away.
im afraid this will end it all
I cant lose the other half of my soul
I fell inlove un intentionally
and I cant tell anyone,nobody..
till the day I can feel you were no longer there..
you were physicaly there,but never care..
you no longer walk beside me.
with someone now you were happy.
I tried to call you,but you didn’t answer
and the next I thing I knew you have changed your no.

unofficially yours..

 today's generation,..usong uso ang tinatawag nilang unofficial relationships..
laro ito ng mga taong takot matali..
mga taong laro lang ang laman ng isip..
pero naisip nyo ba kung sino ang magiging talunan at the end of the day??
people might think that it was fun being free from commitment..
panu kung nahulog kana??
masasabi mo bang "sana tayo na lang"
kahit alam mong ni minsan d ka nya sineryoso?

M.U.
mutual understanding..
pareho ang nararamdaman sa isat-isa..
mahal ka,mahal mo rin..
magkasundo sa lahat ng bagay..
kung ganito rin lang naman ang sitwasyon,
why stay on that kind of situation, when you can both be happy together as lovers.??
o baka naman nabuo ang salitang M.U.
dahil sa mga taong torpe, taong takot ma enggage sa ganung set-up,
dahil ilang beses ng nasaktan..
o pwede rin namang, wala lang talagang planung mag seryoso sa buhay..
kaya mas pipiliin nalng ang makipag landian,
ang M.U kasi ay pwede ring
Malanding Ugnayan..

falling inlove with a friend

possible??
closeness is a tendency that two people fall inlove unexpectedly..
this explains kung bakit maraming pagkakataon na nahuhulog tayo,
sa taong tinuring nating matalik na kaibigan..

is it an advantage or disadvantage?
sabi nila advantage daw ito…
in a way na kilala mo na ng lubusan ang taong makakasama mo..
na bago kayo pumasok sa mapanghamong relasyon,
matatag na kayo dahil sa dami ng inyong pinag daanan..
that you can easily adjust sa mga shortcomings nya,
friendship is the best foundation of love..ika nga nila..

Falling INLOVE

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panu mo ba masasabing nahulog na ang puso mo sa isang tao..?               

 Being  inlove is a feeling that you can hardly descride..                   

 abnormal daw ang taong di nagmamahal..                       
nagpapatunay lang na lahat tayo darating at darating sa point               

 na iibig tayo sa isang tao..                       

love comes unexpextedly…                       
akala mo minsan masaya lang xang ksama..                       
na pareho lang kayo ng mga gusto kaya magaan ang loob mo sa kanya..          

 na kailangan mo lng ng taong makakausap lagi..                   

 na komportable ka lang sa kanya..                       
na kaibigan lang xa kaya nag aalala ka sa kanya..                   

 na hinahanap mo lagi ang pangungulit nya..                       
ang di mo namamalayan..at di mo lang naiintindihan..                   

 nagmamahal ka na pala…                       
masasaisip mo lang ang mga bagay na yan kung masasaktan kana..                       

a Letter from ME to YOU

dear YOU,

there are so many things i want to tell you,
yet so many things i want to hide.
do you remember that time?
we were sitting so close,,our hands touching.,
and the only thing that matters to us was each other??
and in those moments,i felt as though the world stopped.
that's when i realized..i'd rather sit right next to you there,
than be with someone else..
i never meant to fall in love with you...
i mean,where best friends..

Realize

"if you were happy with the wrong one, how much more when you find the right one"
such a thought, I cant seem to get over with..
is it really true?
I tend to believe for a long time that whenever you're happy,
you're on the right path,and pain is just part of growing up…

"HE,WE & I"

He
..'s been my friend for almost 6 years.
..has been so good to me and the rest of the pack.
..is tall and very smart
..is funny and sweet
..loves to read books and write stories.
..dreams to be like his favorite author someday.
..likes singing and dancing too
..is loved by my family.
..is my one and only Bestfriend.

mpejitmolfm

When you love someone so much..

you have to give the best for him..

even it means staying away from him..

i know it’s not right for me to love him

he was a brother, a comrade, a friend..

someone who knows me better than anyone else

a man who can make me laugh out loud..

a man I never thought I'd fall inlove with..

its been 4 long years, and it feels like forever..

and he had never dared leave me

.not because my dear to him

its because I'm the only friend he entrusted his life with…

..do you know the feeling??

..do you know the feeling??

let me tell you something my friend told me,
                     ..it was late in the afternoon,she haven't eaten anything that day, because she was saving her money for late lunch with someone so dear to her. Then he came, so she arranged the table and put aside everything. A friend of both invited them to eat downstairs but she was already settled,she even pulled the box under the table so she can sit on it and he can occupy the only chair on their room. She refused because he did,but after a few moment he asked her to just go down and join their friends. She said she cant because she already started eating, then he grabbed his plate and went downstairs without even thinking about her feelings.
She got upset,she didn't finished her meal but she didn't said any word about it. The boy get mad because of her silence, they didn't talk that day and the following.

Its embarrassing to be with someone who so insensitive, but same as with someone who is not that outspoken, they both have mistakes that they refused to admit because of what you so called "pride".

The One

Every girl has that one boy that they'll never get over,

the one who makes you laugh,

the one who gives you butterflies,just when someone says his name..

the one who remembers all the things you think you say are stupid..

and remembers you about it months from now..

the one who has his name written all over your heart..

the one who you compare to every guy..

the one you never get sick of talking or hearing about..

the one that you cry over and over about...

the one that no one can understand..

"why him??"

the one everyone thinks you can do better..

the one you ask "why her and not me??"

the one when you first saw him you knew you..

LOVED HIM

the one that in some way ends up not being yours..

:(