Monday, March 4, 2013

falling inlove with a friend


possible??
closeness is a tendency that two people fall inlove unexpectedly..
this explains kung bakit maraming pagkakataon na nahuhulog tayo,
sa taong tinuring nating matalik na kaibigan..

is it an advantage or disadvantage?
sabi nila advantage daw ito…
in a way na kilala mo na ng lubusan ang taong makakasama mo..
na bago kayo pumasok sa mapanghamong relasyon,
matatag na kayo dahil sa dami ng inyong pinag daanan..
that you can easily adjust sa mga shortcomings nya,
friendship is the best foundation of love..ika nga nila..

pero marami rin ang nag sasabing hindi na dapat pang humigit
sa pagiging magkaibigan ang dalawang tao..
"friends forever" ika nga nila..
they said,to much closeness may lead to misinterpretation
of what you called love..
some people might get used to have someone beside them..
through up's and down's..
the one that they mistaken to be the "one"
because they were so much attached to that person..
pananaw naman ng iba..,
sayang daw ang pagkakaibigan kung hahaluan ng mas malalim na relasyon..
kung sakali man daw na hindi mag workout..
masasayang ang pagkakaibigang iniingatan..

but we cant deny the fact that alot marriages workout great..
and they were once friends..
but why does it complicates a lot…?
based on one of the books I have read
they define friends as your soulmate…
but soulmate is far different from true love..
sabi pa sa isa kung binasa..
friend is the one you'll be with till the end..
but it'll end up not being yours..

kung ma inlove man tayo sa mga tinuring nating kaibigan..
try to realize things..before concluding..
you might just mistaken that person to be the one,
because he cares a lot and he never leaves..
he tap your back for a job well done..
he wipe your tears,and comforts you..
he makes you feel special in ways you least expected..
BUT always remember,a true FRIEND does those things..
don’t give meanings,don’t exaggerate,don’t expect..
and never ever ask "why"..



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